Kya apke pass do
minute hai?
Are you living your life twice the speed of a bullet train?
Are you fed up of your so called life’s routine that you have decided to do
five day work in just a matter of few hours, that you want to live your whole
life in just a decade or so and have no clue whatsoever what next to plan for.
Because that is exactly what you are trying to make your life, a complete mess.
Do you want to live the rest of your life like this? If yes,
then spare a moment or two out of your busy lives and listen to me for some
wisdom. Suno, Suno, Suno…
Okay that was not called for, but on a funnier note (no more
jokes ahead, this week’s column is serious). You don’t know me, but I know you
all very well. You have planned out your entire life. Born to this world, then
twelve years of school, four years of college, a couple more years of further
studies and then your dream come true. A nine to five job, sitting in the same
chair looking at the same irritating boss of yours Mr. Chadha, for the rest of
your life.
Isn’t this which you have always dreamed of? But amidst all
this have you lost the way of how to live and live the way you are supposed to
live (enough live in a sentence). Have you gone completely insane over life
that all you wait for in life is a Sunday? Here is a few tips to live your
complete life like a big Sunday.
1.
When life
gives you lemon, make lemonade: First and foremost a disclaimer. Please for
the sake of world peace, don’t take the literal meaning of this above
statement. What it actually means is that life will give you tough times, but
the best way to come clean of it is to be optimistic and by adding some
sweetness to the bitterness of life.
Sadness and sorrows are part of one’s life,
as much as joy and smiling are. A rose is no rose, if it has no thorns
surrounding it. The darkness of a candle is unknown, until it is lit. But what
is important to learn and remember is that difficult time pass and when it
passes, a brighter morning will embrace your doorsteps.
2.
Life is
all about living in the breaks: lifetime is a collection and addition of
small breaks sewn together to provide a happy ending together. And if you are
too busy in life, then live in the little moments that life itself presents you
by.
Anyone of you remember the childhood days
when we didn’t knew the worth of time, yet we had that worthy satisfaction of
living. The forty five minutes bus journey every morning from home to school
and then back home, and immediately before that the five minute run from home
to the bus stop. And all that while when you were running you had only one
thought in mind. Kahin bus miss na ho
jaye aaj?
Those lunch break in school where unending
gossips and talks were continued over a samosa or Bhindi ki sabzi, which was in your tiffin box. But as we grow old
those breaks turn shorter and shorter or so as we think. Truth is, those
breaks are still there in our grown up life, all we have to do is see them with
clarity. And when we realize the importance of those shorts break in life,
it’s then when we understand the importance of life on a bigger scale.
3.
Everything
happens for a good cause: As my favorite teacher always says and I quote,
‘God kept things in order, I always tell my young students’. Sometimes in life,
things stop making sense, but it doesn’t mean that it is all bad. God never
leaves anyone’s life empty. God makes sure of replacing the thing which you
have lost with the thing which he has planned long ago.
If you live life as if you want to
experience everything in a single lifetime, it’s not going to happen. You have
to miss out on a few. There are strings which you have to let go off, in order
for better things to happen in life. And be sure of that that good will happen
to you if you are patient enough for it. Because good things happen to those
who wait for it to happen and not who want it more.
Pawan
Sharma was so moved while writing this that he drank twenty glass of lemonade in one go and then had to spent the rest of his day in a bathroom, nature was calling him
on his phone. So he planned to take a loo break and live life there.
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